The January 22, 1919 Binghamton Press lists Stephen Wilbur as an honorary pallbearer at the funeral of Mrs. Helen Knapp. She was a member of the Bartlett Relief Corps, as was Mrs. Wilbur. Stephen was a member of the Joseph J. Bartlett Post that provides the the ritualistic funeral service and acts as pallbearers.
It is likely the honorary ones walked beside the casket. Stephen is 78 years old.